By Katlego Sekhu
In this week’s Anonymous Advice on In The Morning with Thomas and Skhumba, anonymous recently found out that her father is cheating on her mom and is ready to start a new life with the girlfriend – she does not know what to do.
“I have a situation whereby my father has a girlfriend. He’s been married to my mother for over thirty years – my mother is a couple of years older than him.
“He told my sisters and me that when my mother passes away, he’ll need someone to spend his life with. I don’t know what to do,” she opened up.
Advice from Kaya 959 listeners
Anonymous 1
“I can relate; I have experienced it. I think when older people get caught, they call you disrespectful. I usually sit my mom down and tell her what’s happening; make sure you support the victim,” said Anonymous 1.
Anonymous 2
“I caught my dad, and I confronted him. Unfortunately, he passed on. She should try and mend that relationship. I wish I had ironed things up with my dad because it will eat you up,” she advised.
Anonymous 3
“I think to this matter, they must ask themselves why the dad is cheating, maybe the mom also doesn’t want the relationship, and she is staying because of the children,’ said Anonymous.
Anonymous 4
Anonymous 4 advised her to try and find a resolution with her father.
“Honestly, I don’t think there is anything she can do because it seems the father has made the decision – He is already planning for the mother’s funeral. I think she should sit him down and see if they can find a resolution,” she advised.
Advice from Skhumba
“First, the dad is wrong. Secondly, there will always be problems when the child wants to get involved in adults matters. Three, what is important in life? To let someone remain unhappy or move on and be happy?” Said Skhumba.
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