Zuko Komisa

Andy Maqondwana, host of Feel Good with Andy Maqondwana, recently had a humorous conversation on Girl Let’s Talk, where listeners shared “the most they have done for a man who wasn’t their man“.
Andy asked: “Now that you have learned to read the writing on the wall, were you doing the most. Now that you know that you were doing the most, I want to know how much was the most.
“The most you did for the person who wasn’t your person. A man who wasn’t your man, and they still did not make you their plus one. The auditions you went through… you auditioned and still didn’t get the role. They didn’t want you but you still grafted, it’s a story to tell, I would love you to tell it.”
From grand gestures to subtle sacrifices, women phoned in and sent messages, sharing their experiences of going above and beyond for men who were, at best, “situationships,” “friends with benefits,” or simply long-standing crushes.
The responses highlighted the complexities of modern relationships and the often blurred lines that exist before official titles are given.
Listen to the full conversation her:
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