Katlego Sekhu

A listener has reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose to discuss her dilemma.
She left her ex because of his infidelity and found love in the arms of her current partner. However, she can’t help but reminisce about her ex and all the things they did together. While she feels her current boyfriend is a good man, he just isn’t like her ex. Seeking guidance from fellow Kaya 959 listeners, Anonymous wants to know if there are any blind spots she might be overlooking.
“I have been with this guy for a year. Things are good, but I am struggling. I still think about my ex often and wonder how things could have been if he hadn’t cheated. My ex was a serial cheater, and I had to leave him for my peace, but I have been miserable ever since. Despite his cheating, he was the first man who truly loved me—he understood me, cared for me, and always surprised me with romantic dates. He loved my daughter as if she were his own. I felt like his queen, and since our breakup, I have struggled to find a man who loves me that well.
“My current boyfriend is nice, but he doesn’t hit the spot. I think about my ex constantly, and what’s worse, there isn’t a week that goes by without him trying to reach out. I avoid his calls, but he still texts or slides into my DMs, telling me how much he misses me.
“Yet I know he won’t change his cheating ways. Why isn’t my heart listening to my head? It longs for him. Why can’t I let go? I just want to be happy, and my ex gave me everything and more. The thought of going back to him is tempting, but I’m haunted by the fact that he would likely cheat again. Should I end things with my current boyfriend and wait for the right man to come along? What could be my blind spot?”
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