Katlego Sekhu

A listener shares that when he and his partner started dating, she mentioned that she commutes to work with her ex, assuring him there was nothing to worry about.
However, months later, he’s starting to feel uneasy about the arrangement, despite her reassurances that nothing is going on. He’s even considering buying a car to avoid the situation altogether.
“I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 months now. One thing she told me when we started dating was that she travels daily to work with her ex-boyfriend. Their companies are close to each other and so even after they broke up, he continued to fetch her and has been doing so ever since.
“They broke up two years ago and so at first, I didn’t think much of it but now I have started to feel uneasy. I have met the ex, and we have had conversations, and he is a cool guy but this driving-together business isn’t working out for me.
“I told my girl how this made me feel but she is adamant that I have nothing to worry about. They are just friends now, and they’ll never work as a couple and they both know it. Why am I feeling like this all of a sudden? Why is it difficult to take her word? I thought of buying her a car, but how do I justify buying a girlfriend a vehicle to my family? What could be my BlindSpot?”
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