Katlego Sekhu

A listener shared that her mom recently fell ill and moved into her house after surgery. She mentioned that her mother has always disliked her brother’s wife and has been doing everything she can to break them up.
However, she believes her sister-in-law is a wonderful person and wishes her mom could see that.
To her surprise, she caught her mom consulting with a Sangoma in her house about her sister-in-law not too long ago. This made her uncomfortable, and now she’s wondering if she should bring it up with the family.
“My mother had to go in for surgery in April. When she was discharged, I took her in so I could take care of her. It has been a little over three months since she has been at my place. I am in the process of divorce so having mom around has been good but, I have also seen a side to her I don’t like.
“So, at mom’s house, she lives with my brother, my sister-in-law, and their daughter. My mother has never really liked my sister-in-law. She always complains that she is lazy and when my brother lost his job, my mother’s disdain for my sister-in-law got worse.
“My mother has been saying we must get rid of my sister-in-law as she wants to return home. I have been trying to show her that as much as she may dislike her, she is pretty much-taking care of my brother and that house, as she is the one that works. Last week, I came back from work and found my mother with a sangoma in my house. She says she wants to ensure my sister-in-law leaves her house. I was so shocked at the extent my mother went to.
“I asked the lady Sangoma to leave my house and I have just not been able to look at my mom the same since. I am so angry at my mother but what’s worse, I can’t even force her to go back to her place because only God knows what she’ll do to my sister-in-law. Must I just tell my brother what is happening? What could be my blind spot?”
Anonymous
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