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“My wife’s mom and her sister are still staying at my house a year after her passing” – The Blindpsot
The passing of a loved one can be a very difficult time, and you need all the support you need. However, it can be difficult to navigate a relationship with the in-laws after your partner has passed.
Anonymous reached out to The Best T in the City to get advice on how he should deal with his situation. His mother-in-law and sister-in-law have been staying at his house for close to a year now since his wife passed away.
“Uncle T, my wife had been sick for some years before her passing. About 3 months before she passed her mom and sister came to stay with us so they could help us as I still had to go to work. After my wife passed, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law continued staying with me and the kids. I thought after about 3 months they would leave but it has been a year, and they are still around. I appreciate the help, especially with the kids, but I need my space.”
“I feel I have not even properly mourned my wife. Eventually, I need to learn how to single- parent my kids, and that is going to be hard, but it must be done. But my other concern is I feel like I am being watched. My mother-in-law has her own house, and she is self-sustaining and so is my sister-in-law. I get it that they are also still mourning, that is going to take a while to accept. Will I be insensitive, to ask them to leave? How do I ask them to leave without offending them? Or is there something I am missing here?”
Anonymous
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