Zuko Komisa

Many married couples will agree that relationships with in-laws can have their fair share of disagreements, arguments, and problems. But, where do you draw the line?
Anonymous reached out to The Best T In the City to find a different view on how to handle her situation with her in-laws who continue to disregard her after years of being married to her husband.
“Hi Uncle T. I have been with my partner for 9 years and we recently got married.
My problem is his family fails to acknowledge our union. All his siblings are based overseas, and I have recently learned they are planning a birthday party for him behind my back. They have not told me anything, they have not asked me if I would like to be part of the planning committee or to hear my input at least.”
“My problem Uncle T is not the fact that I’m being excluded (yes it does hurt) but it’s his big 40 and I made paid plans for us and our daughter. I have not asked my husband about this, as the siblings’ issue is a sensitive one. If that was not enough, he ALWAYS sticks up for his siblings and not me, every time we are faced with similar issues, he will side with his siblings.”
“I honestly feel like he is the main reason his family keeps disregarding me and our marriage. What can I do to make him see what his family is doing to us and its effect on me? Is leaving him the best solution?”
Anonymous
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