Katlego Sekhu

A listener recently shared that she caught her sister-in-law cheating on her brother. When she confronted her sister-in-law about it, she explained that they had fallen on hard times and her husband had given up on life, turning to alcoholism. As a result, she felt neglected.
The listener reached out to fellow Best T in the City listeners for advice on whether she should tell her brother about the situation or if there could be more.
“After our mother passed away, my brother, his wife, and daughter moved in to live with me at mom’s house. My brother has not been working for years, so it made sense that they moved in because I live in the backroom. My sister-in-law works, and so she’s the one who provides for my brother and their daughter.
“In January, I caught my sister-in-law red-handed with her boyfriend. When I confronted her, she just cried and said my brother has given up on life and all he does is drink and sleep, they are not even intimate, so she went outside to seek comfort. I am really hurt that she has been cheating on my brother and didn’t stop even after I caught her and
reprimanded her.“I want to kick her out, but she feeds my brother, has him on her medical aid, and ensures he buys him clothes and toiletry. Should I chase her out I will have to pick up all the slack, and I have my kids. So, I have decided to turn a blind eye for the sake of my brother but it’s eating me up inside. Is there any way to deal with this?”
Prudence on X advises Anonymous not to get involved in her brother’s affairs. “It’s not that ur brother doesn’t see what is going on his comfortable been taken care off, he knows once he claim divorce his going to loss all the comfort,& what if his cheating too,move out of home build ur own house for ur own children.”
On the other hand, another user suggests that Anonymous should be her brother’s keeper. “Tell him, it might be what he needs to hear for him to wake up and start living again, he will then decide what to do with his cheating wife. Blood is thicker than water.”\



