Katlego Sekhu
In the latest Blind Spot on The Best T in the City with Tbose, Anonymous shares a frustrating situation she’s faced with. It all started with a heated argument between her and her aunt at a family gathering. For peace sake, she took the high road and apologized in front of everyone. She thought that would be the end of it, but recently, when she mentioned her plans to host a Thanksgiving ceremony, her dad insisted that she must personally apologize to her aunt before he would give his blessing for the ceremony. This has left Anonymous feeling confused and wondering if there’s something she’s missing
“Last year, I had a big argument with my aunt at a family gathering. It was a pretty tense situation, and things got heated. After the event, my dad decided to call a family meeting to address the issue. During the meeting, my aunt spoke up and basically accused me of thinking I was better than everyone else just because I don’t live at home anymore. It was clear she was talking about me, and instead of defending myself, I took the high road and apologized for whatever I may have said. I even asked her to forgive me in front of everyone.
“I thought that would be the end of it. But recently, when I called my dad to let him know about my plans for a Thanksgiving ceremony, he dropped a bombshell on me. He said that unless I personally go and apologize to my aunt in person, there will be no ceremony. I can’t help but feel like this is totally unfair. Not only is my dad taking my aunt’s side, but he’s also not standing up for me as his own daughter. It’s really disappointing. So, I’ve made up my mind—I won’t apologize again, and I’m canceling the ceremony. But now I’m wondering, Am I the one in the wrong here?”
Anonymous
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