By Katlego Sekhu
According to findings from a recent study, the expectation that men should have a high sexual drive has led to them doubting themselves when the desire isn’t there.
They feel if they turn down sex it might disappoint their partners or they might receive judgment, so they give in.
The research further shows that a man’s sexual desire is not as simple as we’ve been made to believe.
This sparked the question “What else are we wrong when it comes to men’s sexual desire?” on The Best T in the City with Tbose.
Tshepo tells Kaya 959.
“My strategy for turning down sex is to watch the English Premier League and drink my whiskey and pass out. Because if I tell her that I’m not in the mood I’ll get punished for the whole month”
A listener recommends having an honest conversation with your partner.
“You need to communicate with your partner. Let them know your sex drive, and let them understand you sexually.
“I and my person understand each other. We have the same appetite and sex drive. It’s good for our relationship because that’s what we both want. We sat down and discussed it.”
Catch up on The Best T in the City podcast.
