By Katlego Sekhu
Girls are failing at making the first impression. Yes, some are shooting their shot but they are getting no responses. Why is this the case?
There are very few things that are as nerve-wracking as making the first move. Most people fear coming across as vulnerable or getting rejected.
“Think about it this way”, adds Tbose. “You are making the first move on someone who is not aware that you have romantic intentions. So what is the trick of making them see or at least making them open to the idea? That first move is a 50/50 scenario – it may work it may not work.”
With that being said, The Best T in the City with Tbose wants to know: “Why do girls fail to shoot their shot?”
A listener shares: “It happens that there is a guy you want to approach but you are not sure if the guy is also interested. Or you’ll find that he’s interested but when he tells other people he makes it look like you are the only one who’s interested,” a listener shares.
Check out some of the responses on social media:
#WhyGirlsFailToShootTheirShot https://t.co/ip3zX4NxH0
— T. (@tboseZA) June 21, 2022
I think ladies do have game. But I also feel that gents aren’t really prepared to be dazzled that way because it makes them feel otherwise. They want to be the ones that leave the lady feeling weak in the knees. #WhyGirlsFailToShootTheirShot https://t.co/AzUy66CecG
— Seipati M. (@katselitlhapi) June 21, 2022
Guys will reject a relationship but will be very open to tlofisto.
— Motho wa Modimo (@MModimo) June 21, 2022
He'll be like I'm not there emotionally but can be there physically… If you know what I mean #WhyGirlsFailToShootTheirShot pic.twitter.com/xTXXgx5U7p
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