By Katlego Sekhu
So you have not been seeing eye to eye with someone for some time and they suddenly die.
Maybe this is someone who broke you and you wanted nothing to do with them while they were still alive and even wished death unto them.
Do you mourn them or continue with life as normal?
The Best T in the City listeners share their experiences.
“Forgiveness is something else. There’s a lady who poisoned my mom and she died. The lady came and asked for an apology but I’ll never forgive her,” shares a caller.
TK shares: “Unfortunately, a person despised me and I had to give them the same energy. Unfortunately, he died without apologising, it was so coward of him to die without telling me why he resented me.
“When my grandmother passed on she said that he was born with a filthy heart. It killed me inside because I lived without forgiving him.”
Anonymous says bygones should be bygones: “In all honesty, if I hate you I hate you but I don’t wish for you to die. If that person dies I’ll mourn with the family. Guys let Bygones be bygones.”
[3TSpoons] On Why #WhenSomeoneYouHateDies Is Complicated
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) March 28, 2022
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