Kaya 959 Reporter
Love, at first sight, can sometimes be found at places you least expect.
Many singletons have made a conscious decision to welcome love when it comes knocking in this new year.
The pressure to get that surprise special gift on Valentine’s Day shouldn’t make you desperate during this time of the year.
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However, the reality is, sometimes you could just be looking for love in the wrong places.
The Best T In The City with Tbose put the question to Kaya 959 listeners, of whether they feel they just might be looking for love in all the wrong places.
[3TSpoons] ON #LookingForLoveInWrongPlaces
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) January 18, 2022
🥄Money: it knows no status, there are people with money but don’t show it
🥄Status: people don’t want to work hard towards anything anymore
🥄Class: we all forget, that we all come humble beginnings#TheBestTInTheCity with @tboseZA pic.twitter.com/rA0gA7RlmJ
How do you know you should try something different, how are you improving your search for your ideal partner this time around?
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Here are some ideas of where you should start exploring:
‘The One’ could be right in front of you
You probably have met your soulmate but haven’t allowed yourself to consider them as the one. The reality is, they could be someone you see and chat with regularly.
One listener had a similar experience, and subsequently found ‘the one’ in church.
‘The One’ isn’t your type
Over time, many happy couples realised that, had they not abandoned their idea of what their ‘type’ was, they would never have found happiness.
One listener said, sometimes, you miss an opportunity to have happiness because you are fixated on an idea of what your partner should be.
‘The One’ is still on their journey
The partner of your dreams is still on his path to discovering their purpose.
One listener said, many singletons spend so much time looking for someone who is ‘perfect’, while all they need is someone who is on their way to success.
In 2022, make it your mission to abandon ideas of who your dream partner should be, go to places where people do things you like doing, and find ways to keep yourself happy, as happy people attract more happiness.


