Single ladies are complaining that men are spoiling the dating game. They say:
- Men still use the old rule book.
- The new rules are: sex first, romance after.
- So, men miss the sexual cues, because they think she wants love.
Men tend to want to take the lead and play the romance game, when all she wants is sex at the time. So, he ends playing a long instead of a short game.
One thing women need to understand is that men don’t take cues well. Sometimes you just need to come out and tell him exactly what it is you want otherwise you might never get to have sex with him.
Just always make sure you keep it within boundaries, don’t make him feel uncomfortable, remember sexual harassment happens both ways.
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The Best In The City with Tbose wanted to know if the saying ‘men are slow these days’ still applies today:
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I think this where men need to continue following the communication and also ask if one is sure about the action to take place. She says STOP,NO,I DON’T WANT TO DO IT ANYMORE,right that very second you stop.Don’t be like but you gave the signal. #MenAreSlowThese
— Amogelang Makape 🦋 (@amogee) September 15, 2021
We are afraid of “flirting is not consent for sex”…therefore we are labeled as perverts and the next thing I’m in court for rape
My take is these days if a woman is interested in a man they should tell it like it is and specificy their needs and wants out of that situation pic.twitter.com/b1IodXaJ6C
— 🍼🦋#FreeSpirit_HappySoul 😇💿 (@Banana____Joe) September 15, 2021
The problem is women definition of romance only centred around money
Money to buy expensive gifts, seat for the first time in a flight to Durban, Cape Town, Dubai, Maldives etc
That’s when you are the best to them
Anything aside the aforementioned is not romance
Ask Lorch pic.twitter.com/sGT4xAYtZ8— The Ntsikelelo (@TKuntumi) September 15, 2021
[3 TSpoons] On Why #MenAreSlowTheseDays
[3 TSpoons] On Why #MenAreSlowTheseDays
🥄 Men Are Just Generally Slow
🥄 Men Think They’re The Only Chasers
🥄 Men Still Use the Old Rule Book#TheBestTInTheCity pic.twitter.com/OR7cKu8Vev
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) September 15, 2021



