A challenging decision that arises soon after your spouse’s funeral has passed and life has settled down to some form of semi-normality, is what to do with your wedding ring.
The timetable for removing a wedding ring after a spouse’s death is completely personal.
Do you leave it on your finger or do you remove it? If you take it off – what do you do with it? If you leave it on – should you move it to the other hand?
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For divorce many say take the wedding ring off the minute you see that the marriage is over and there is no turning back. While for death, they advise that you take the ring off when you are ready and comfortable to do so. Ultimately there is no right or wrong time, however taking off that ring signifies a new chapter in your life.
In reality many widows/widowers continue to wear their wedding ring until they feel ready to take it off.
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The Best In The City with Tbose asked Kaya 959 listeners how long did it take you to remove your ring after your spouses death or after your divorce?
The ring comes off after the divorce papers have been signed but if it’s death related I think it’s from person to person if they have accepted and ready to find new love to pursue pic.twitter.com/lqXRDqtR9z
— Kҍee_DeOɾɑcӀe (@kbee_oracle) September 7, 2021
T I took it off while we were still living together,cause it was the only thing that said we were married..and people judged me.He wasn’t there,he changed from husband to Mr lover men outside..So😏Took that thing off.#WhenToTakeTheRingOff https://t.co/BF5Ek8tIzD
— Pam (@Pam75142776) September 7, 2021
I’m 26 and it’s crazy how many people my age have been divorced like 3 times already … I mean Damn… Really discouraging stuff #WhenToTakeTheRingOff pic.twitter.com/ESVXdX4DLH
— TheeExistentialZulu🥀♐ (@ZuluExistential) September 7, 2021
@tboseZA it was an engagement ring & I took it off the minute we confirmed that we were over.I don’t see why one must keep it on? Next in line mntase🤣🙈 My mother on the other hand has hers on and she has been divorced 10yrs+ 🤣 @kayafm love the show ❤
#WhenToTakeTheRingOff— Mpumza (@I_AM_LELO26) September 7, 2021
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Kaya 959 listeners also shared their opinions based on their own experiences:
[3 TSpoons] On #WhenToTakeTheRingOff
[3 TSpoons] On #WhenToTakeTheRingOff
🥄 Acceptance
🥄 New Chapter
🥄 Ready To Move #TheBestTInTheCity pic.twitter.com/JJqxWIxaL9
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) September 7, 2021



