When someone cheats on you, you start asking yourself questions and go through so many emotions. You ask yourself if you will ever trust again or if you will ever forgive your partner.
Being cheated on changes you. You even lose your train of thought and end up asking questions you don’t need answers to.

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Self Esteem
Your self-worth will take a knock, love is territorial, what’s yours is yours. Knowing that someone has drank from your cup and not using a straw can send a man packing. So, he ends up asking, “Did you kiss him with your mouth wide open?”
Trust
This is the hardest thing about infidelity, the broken trust. This is where words mean nothing. So, when you ask, does he shower before he sleeps. It is because she said she prefers a man that does, and should the man she cheats with does not shower before they even kiss, trust is broken.
Boundaries
Your space is your space, including your partner regardless where they are, they are your space. So, if you pack him lunch in your favourite Tupperware, and he shares that lunch with someone she has an affair with at work…you are justified to ask “Did she touch my Tupperware?”
This is what some of Kaya 959 listeners on the Best T In the City with Tbose said they had asked themselves after finding out you they were cheated on.
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What questions do you ask yourself when cheated on? Zuko
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What questions do you ask yourself when cheated on? Zuko
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What questions do you ask yourself when cheated on? Zuko
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What questions do you ask yourself when cheated on? Zuko
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What questions do you ask yourself when cheated on? Zuko
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#QuestionsAfterBeingCheatedOn…??..bra T. I didn’t ask her, I asked my best friend, my chommy, mpinch ye gazi (my penis)…I was in the shower going like…”maybe you lazy, awu vuki sometimes, is it me or you? U size bani grand grand? ” bra T it was a proper question session pic.twitter.com/YmTSxdIoca
— Tiisetso _The Taxi Driver (@TaxiTiisetso) March 30, 2021
Ladies and Gentlemen Yazi relationships should have R5000 joining Fee just to see who is serious Mara????#QuestionsAfterBeingCheatedOn#NoxoloGrootboom pic.twitter.com/S0nVPbWLJf
— IG:_Klass Mduduzi (@winners46669) March 30, 2021
Is it because I don’t have a car? #QuestionsAfterBeingCheatedOn pic.twitter.com/LaUb71kuyc
— Play_Sambowemu (@mbongenius) March 30, 2021
a myriad of them. Questions to the self , questions to the cheater ,questions to the self; questions about the one the one they cheated with. Hawu the brain can work overtime you will discover Can they all be documented ? -NOP! #QuestionsAfterBeingCheatedOn pic.twitter.com/TjdyFZmikO
— anotida. (@anotidamakosa2) March 30, 2021
a myriad of them. Questions to the self , questions to the cheater ,questions to the self; questions about the one the one they cheated with. Hawu the brain can work overtime you will discover Can they all be documented ? -NOP! #QuestionsAfterBeingCheatedOn pic.twitter.com/TjdyFZmikO
— anotida. (@anotidamakosa2) March 30, 2021


