Women are more likely to regret indulging in casual sex, while men are more likely to regret missed opportunities for it.
Psychologists believe that regret motivates people to learn from past mistakes and avoid them in the future.
But contrary to this theory, new research shows that despite feelings of sexual regret, people don’t change their patterns of sexual behavior. Some regret thing they tried, while some regret thing they didn’t do during sex.
The Best T In The City asked Kaya 959 listeners what they regret trying or not trying in bed:
Nothing, I’ve tried every position I could think of even the one’s I see on videos. Problem ke gore the people I’ve tried with cannot stand all the positions that comes to mind.#TheSexYouRegretNotTrying pic.twitter.com/q8Q3V1lrhX
— Refilwe Masege (@Refilwe50) August 25, 2021
— Mntano Mntlane (@LMkonqo) August 25, 2021
Few weird things to try in the bedroom
Go to Maftown
Any part of the body that triggers sexual pleasure can be considered a sexual organ, you tongue going down there has given many a sensation like no other. One listener spoke about how they wished they had started ‘going to maftown’ earlier.
Having a quickie
Whatever form a quickie takes for you and your partner, there are plenty of tricks to make sure it’s one to remember—even if it barely lasts five minutes. You won’t regret it, like this listener says you will be a sex champion.
Having ‘trying to be totally silent’ sex
Even though there’s time when you have an urgent itch you want to scratch, and you passionately pursuit it with your partner always know you are only as good as you last time. Feel free to add some variety in the bedroom.
No, we’re not saying porn is for everyone. But it always feels strange to dismiss something if you’ve never given it a go. Watch some that doesn’t sound too awful.
Again, if you don’t like it, you’re now free to proudly and knowledgeably explain why it’s not for you.
Trying a fantasy in real life (Whips and Chains)
#TheSexYouRegretNotTrying….mina I regret trying bondage n handcuffs….yhoooo nkosi yam. Zange ka shapiwa while on handcuffs…..o re o jikela right “whip”…..o re o jikela left “whip” pic.twitter.com/dllnxotI7B
— Tiisetso _The Taxi Driver (@TaxiTiisetso) August 25, 2021
As long as it’s all consensual and doesn’t harm anyone, obviously.
Share a fantasy with a person you’re having sex with and trust, and then work on bringing it to real life. You’ll never forget it.
When it comes to shower sex, the only thing that’s slippery when wet is the shower floor. This makes for a potentially neck-breaking accident that you best avoid.