What’s the biggest mistake you’ve ever made after a breakup?
Break-ups are painful and the need for the pain to go away makes people do things that do them no good.
Now that your relationship has ended, you need to redirect your focus. It’s important to remember that self-care is the key to happiness – not a relationship. In order to become the best version of yourself, you’ll need to put in some work. You’re vulnerable but you aren’t broken. You can recover from a breakup in a healthy way.
Stalking them on social media
No good will come from stalking your ex on social media. It’s unhealthy for your growth and can become an obsession.
— Nokuzola Ntimba (@nokylicious) August 31, 2021
One of the stages of a breakup that the majority of us go through. It’s the regretful rebound. In other words, it’s the person you get with as a distraction or a way to get over your ex.
This only leads to heartbreak, regret, and embarrassment.
The biggest mistake is always taking in your side person. BIG MISTAKE!!! sides must remain on the side. They don’t do well as the main. You’ll thank me later. #BiggestMistakeAfterBreakUp pic.twitter.com/iRIEDbVAEw
— Malcom ‘Nkunzi’ Khuzwayo. (@SumDumm_Guy) August 31, 2021
T having a rebound that was also fresh out of a relationship. Let me just say this was a recipe for disaster. I was left more broken than I was when I came out of my relationship………. Ompone ompolaye 🤞#BiggestMistakeAfterBreakUp @tboseZA #TheBestTInTheCity https://t.co/pdQ92cpSWH
— Dr.TP Mogapi (@_DrTP) August 31, 2021
This one is big and it’s sad but when you breakup with someone, you breakup with the entire family. To be specific, a relative may hold a grudge against you or try to set you two back up.
— Baba ka Kezia (@Kezi4Daddy2012) August 31, 2021
Not accepting it’s over
You need to start the process of moving on, as early as possible, this is for your own mental health. One listener shared how he begged her man to stay:
— N’wayitelo Walter (@NwayiteloWalter) August 31, 2021