By Katlego Sekhu
Chances are there’s that one trait all your exes have accused you of. Maybe you have been told that you are stubborn by all your exes and your current confirmed it recently.
Now, in all your relationships, past and present what have you always been accused of?
Nothando tells Tbose on The Best T in the City: “I’ve been told that I’m stubborn and I don’t want to listen to anyone. The last time I voiced my emotions to my person he was angry at me for two weeks. I had told him that he was too old. I remember I was single for that two weeks.
“Sometimes it’s not being disrespectful but just voicing out how you feel without being aware that it could affect your partner in a certain way.”
A male listener shares: “I was told that I can’t keep a woman because I am neat and too clean. We are always fighting about cleanliness me and my woman.”
What people are saying on social media:
In the past I was accused of not taking things serious. Who would take a cheater serious though?🤷🏿♀️#BathiWenzeni pic.twitter.com/XHl03oqgzE
— Amogelang Makape 🦋 (@amogee) March 1, 2022
#BathiWenzeni I am always accused of overthinking, have pride, ha ke ncenge, that I have trust issues and impatient.
— ♏💞🌼 I _AM _KGOMOTSO 🌼 💞♏ (@Sesi_Kgomotso) March 1, 2022
I am a straight talker, YES I DO HAVE PRIDE, and a NO nonsense woman. I have so much peace in my heart that nothing moves me unless I want it to. pic.twitter.com/mhepS9QYB1
I’m the instigator… I supposedly look for things that’s non existing 🤔
— Alvira Lona (@amggg06) March 1, 2022
But I always say… “Where there’s smoke, there’s fire!”#BathiWenzeni
3 Teaspoons on #BathiWenzeni
[3TSpoons] On #BathiWenzeni
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) March 1, 2022
🥄 You Are Not A Finisher
🥄 You Are Quick To Quit
🥄 You Want To Be Everybody’s Favorite #TheBestTInTheCity pic.twitter.com/LIEPyjcw0q
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