By Katlego Sekhu
“Are men moving on too fast after divorce or break up?” This is the topic of discussion on The Best T in the City with Tbose.
We’ve all seen it happen before – a couple divorces, the woman isn’t ready to start dating again while the guy quickly moves on with another woman.
According to studies conducted, men move on too fast after a divorce/breakup because they are not trained or socialized for emotional communication the same way as women are.
Experts say that men who move on faster may be good at compartmentalizing, meaning they can just put their old relationships in the past and look to new dating experiences.
A listener shares on The Last Sip: “I think as women we stay in relationships thinking we are going to make him a better man or change him but then if he isn’t ready then there’s nothing you can do about it.
“It may be okay for a certain period but it catches up eventually. It’s the same as those people who are dating criminals knowingly with the mentality that they can change them.
“I think it boils down to the motherly feature we have as women.”
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