By Katlego Sekhu
Research has shown that a father’s influence on his daughter’s life shapes her self-esteem, self-image, confidence, and opinions of men.
A girl’s relationship with her dad can determine her ability to trust, her need for approval, and her self-belief. It can affect her love life.
“How high did your Dad set the bar?” Asks Tbose on The Best T in the City.
Ntobe says she does not have a bar because her dad was never present.”No man actually even stepped up, unfortunately. But I feel like I created the standard of what I wanted from a man and am not willing to compromise on that. Also based on the fact that there was no blueprint for me,” she shares.
Refiloe shares that her late dad set the bar too high. After dating the guy her dad thought was similar to him, unfortunately, the relationship did not work out. “Sad to say my hero was wrong,” she added.
My late set the bar soo high I actually only still dating the guy he “Thought”was similar to him but unfortunately NOT and coz I loved my dad I trusted his judgement sad to say this time my Hero was wrong 😑 #AreYouDatingYourDad
— Refiloe (@Fifiiramz) June 7, 2022
#AreYouDatingYourDad https://t.co/d9tOfUJnHZ
— T. (@tboseZA) June 7, 2022
#AreYouDatingYourDad
— Musawenkosi Masondo (@MusaScott_Shoba) June 7, 2022
Bra T. It is unfair to us gents who want to date these ladies. No guy can match, or even come close to matching father's love to their daughters. This set a bar that no man can meet. If compare to a fathers, we will always come last as boyfriends.
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