By Tamlyn Canham
Sizwe Dhlomo shocked his fans this week when he revealed that he wouldn’t leave a cheating spouse if she was genuinely remorseful.
He made the comment while responding to a tweet shared by Mpho Letsholonyane.
Mpho weighed in on the drama surrounding American relationship guru Derrick Jaxn.
Derrick, who has been urging black women to leave their good-for-nothing cheating men, was recently exposed as a cheater himself.
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Derrick made a confession video with his wife by his side.
Mpho described the video as “wild”.
https://twitter.com/M_Letsholonyane/status/1374272888849772552
If the tables were turned…
Mpho added in a separate post that if the tables were turned, men would not put up with cheating – let alone hold the cheater’s hand in an apology video!
Sizwe disagreed. He told Mpho that he would stay with his partner if the tables were turned.
https://twitter.com/SizweDhlomo/status/1374273652666085378
Mpho was not buying it and joked that Sizwe would be plotting his cheating partner’s murder.
But Sizwe was adamant that he would forgive and forget.
“Nah, honestly I would. It would depend phela on whether or not she still wants to be with me but I’m certainly not leaving my wife just because she slept with another man if she’s sorry about it. Nope. Real talk!” he replied.
https://twitter.com/SizweDhlomo/status/1374274840916541445
Are you sure, Sizwe?
Mpho told Sizwe he was a one in a million type of man.
“You’re one in a million. Fact!!! Men cheat 16 million times but get upset coz she cheated once. So you’re different… Big up to you.”
https://twitter.com/M_Letsholonyane/status/1374277170646949892
Sjoe, how many times?
Several Twitter users agreed with Sizwe, saying that many men actually do stay with their cheating partners.
“Truth is many men do stay, they just never admit it, they think society will label them as fools. What I have also realised is that they also only speak up once they have broken up with the person. You will hear them say how they had forgiven the person for cheating back in 2016,” one woman commented.
Truth is many men do stay, they just never admit it, they think society will label them as fools. What I have also realised is that they also only speak up once they have broken up with the person. You will hear them say how they had forgiven the person for cheating back in 2016
— Boitumelo L (@Tumi_MissLekay) March 23, 2021
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