By Zuko Komisa
What occurs if you are not compatible with your partner’s friends? And is it even relevant?
The first time you meet your partner’s friends, there are unsaid expectations and unintentional judgments; forget the in-laws, friends are the true litmus test.
The complexity of managing friendships within a relationship requires a lot of effort and understanding your partner’s comfort levels is equally important.
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Point of View with Phemelo Motene spoke to marriage counsellors Magauta and Nhlanhla Zwane about whether or not you should become friends with your partner’s friends.
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It might be challenging to interpret and react to a friend who is flirting with your spouse.
It’s appropriate to first discreetly discuss the topic with your spouse to see how they reacted to the circumstance if it disturbs you.
The Zwanes spoke about how it tends to happen in relationships that couples remove certain people in their partner’s life they are uncomfortable with, particularly those they feel their partners are getting too comfortable around.
They also gave scenarios of what typically happens when couples get married and how they manage friendships in their union.
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