By Wanique Block
Theres no heartbreak like the heartbreak from a relationship/partnership that has “what if” or “if only” attached to it.
Relationships are relatively difficult, especially when faced with a series of unexpected and un relieved issues.
On Feel Good, Andy Maqondwana explores the complexities of relationships and partnerships that often leave listeners curious about how things would be if the circumstances were different, thus forcing us to reflect on the following: “what if things were different” or “If only things were different”.
In a voice note one listener shares how if only her partner was alive, she would still be with him.
“I would be with him if he was alive”, she sadly mentioned.
Another listener also mentioned how he would still be with her ex, if he took the time to understand her.
“I would still be with him if he understood me. W e were living in two different worlds. He would say I’m boring because I’m a church girl and he likes groove”.
Another listener who goes by the name of Gugs explains how she still has conversations of what if with her ex, after her went on to get married to someone else.
“My partner at the time decided to get married. While we were dating, I found out that he paid Lobola for someone else, and I immediately ended it”.
Gugs continues: “Almost 16-years later, after finding me, we had a conversation and our conversations always escalate to, “If only””.
For more on this conversation listen to the Feel Good podcast with Andy Maqondwana:
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