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Unannounced visits can be a pleasant surprise or a major interruption, depending on your mood and preparedness. Whether it’s a friend, family member, or coworker, an unexpected visit can disrupt your plans.
It’s not simply the inconvenience; it’s also the feeling of being out of control of your own space and time.
When someone unexpectedly arrives, you may not be prepared to entertain them, your home may be in mess, or you may be in the midst of something important. This might cause feelings of stress, irritation, and even resentment.
Andy asked “A few weeks ago we spoke about why it is that there’s particular people you have made a consci decision not to go and visit. Now let’s do an inverse, because you too are that kind of person who does not like unannounced visitors. It make you look like you’re a mean person, but really it’s a you thing versus a them thing. I really want this to be a safe space for you tell me what the real reason why you don’t like unannounced visitors?
Kaya 959 listeners shared on Feel Good with Andy Maqondwana how they really feel about unannounced visitors.
Listen to the full conversation here:
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