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Girl Let’s Talk: Your partner had a child while you were on a brief break.
The unpredictability of what happens when couple briefly separate is enormous, and at times your partner finds someone else and they end up having a child while you are supposed to be taking a break.
This has happened to many couples and it can get very heartbreaking, shocking and complicated.
Feel Good with Andy Maqondwana spoke to women who have gone through this wild experience and they shared their stories on how they found out, as well as how it made them feel.
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Listen to the full conversation here:
Kaya 959 listeners reflected on the how they found out that their partners had been children either during a separation or while they were still in a marriage.
‘When you find out from the streets’
“My worst pain would be having to find out from the streets, instead of my husband. I would feel very betrayed and blindsided. The whole situation in itself is a lot to take in”
‘We had a brief separation, and he met someone and had twins’
“We were in a separation and the guy told me the way he loves me and he would never leave me, but he met new people and one of them became pregnant. It so happened that the children were twins. It just became very difficult.”
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‘I found out after 3 years’
“What hurts the most is that you have been a fool all along, in my case my husband had a child and I knew after 3 years. The relationship with the child’s mother her and the family knew him. I was the only one who who didn’t know. The marriage ended there and then after I knew.”
‘I found out from the lady’s mother’
“I found out from the lady’s mother who gave me call, saying I am so and so I believe you and this person are no longer together, she gave me the information, and said here we are and we can’t get hold of him as he told them he has moved to Mpumalanga.”
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