Zuko Komisa

Girl Let’s Talk: That one time you begged him to stay.
There comes a time when you find yourself coming up with ideas on how to stop your partner who wants to end a relationship from leaving.
It is one of those “what was I thinking” moments that many have later realized never works out well.
In essence, begging and pleading will end your relationship because it destroys respect. You’ll have reached a dead end and they won’t ever treat you with respect, even if they do stay for a little while longer.
Andy said: “This is a safe space for you and I know you’ve done a lot of work on yourself to forget this moment in your life. You even convince yourself that this is something I have read in a book. However, it happened, this is a moment in your life you did something embarrassing, and cringeworthy to ask for loveback. Where you were begging them not to leave you. A sink or swim situation where you were not ready to let the relationship sink.”
Kaya 959 listeners shared with Andy Maqondwana some of the embarrassing things they have done to get love back.
Listen to the full conversation here:
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