By: Natasha Archary
Like men have “bro code”, a set of unwritten rules that make or breaks friendships, so too do women.
The girl code is a similar set of rules that categorise grey areas within the friendship as either unacceptable or acceptable.
As unofficial as these rules may be, there are some lines in a friendship that should never be crossed.
Unofficial rules within girl code
The fundamental rule of girl code is that you will always do right by your friend. If under any circumstances, your actions put you in a position where your girlfriends question your loyalty or intentions, it’s a problem.
One of the most obvious unspoken girl code rules is that you never, ever hookup with the same person your friend is entangling with.
Regardless of how long they’ve been together. This rule extends to after your friend splits from said person. So, basically, anyone your friend is with or has been with, is off limits.
While it should go without saying, sleeping with your friend’s partner or spouse is unforgivable, especially as a bestie.
Other girl code rules include:
- Having feminine hygiene products on hand at all times. You never know when a friend will need a tampon or sanitary pad.
- Protecting your friend if she’s had a little too much to drink when you’re out
- If your friend is crying check to see what the problem is
- Never body-shame each other
- Safeguard your friend’s secrets
- Never speak about your girlfriends behind their backs or carry gossip about them
- Your friend’s kids are your kids
- Giving your friend advice doesn’t mean you overstep boundaries. If you know something is off limits don’t push them.
- Have your friend’s best interests at heart.
- Tell your friend if an outfit isn’t flattering on her without hurting her feelings
Breaking the girl code can ruin the friendship, leaving a gaping hole in the trust and bond you once shared.
Sometimes the bond can be repaired but in more serious situations, you could lose a friend forever if the sanctity of the code is lost.
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