Katlego Sekhu

This Valentine’s Day, beloved South African couple Phumeza and her husband Shoba made a special appearance on My Top 10 at 10 with Tbose. They shared their beautiful love story and much more.
Reflecting on what initially attracted her to Shoba, Phumeza referenced a Toni Braxton song, saying, “Toni Braxton said it best in one of her songs, ‘I wish that I was in your arms like a Spanish guitar.'”
Their mutual attraction blossomed naturally while collaborating on music, and, as the saying goes, the rest is history.
Addressing conflict resolution
Like any couple, Phumeza and Shoba encounter disagreements. Phumeza noted that over the years, their approach to conflict has “improved in terms of understanding and getting to know each other. It’s also about openly communicating your feelings.”
Echoing her sentiments, Shoba added, “When you’re both arguing, it’s not enjoyable; it’s very frustrating.”
Therapy has played a significant role in the couple’s growth and development.
During the interview, Phumeza and Shoba also spoke about their son, Mpilo, who was born with an eyesight challenge.



