Katlego Sekhu
A listener shares that he and his wife tied the knot over a year ago. He was optimistic about their marriage at first, but now he feels like his wife has changed a lot since they got married. They’re not as close as they used to be, and it’s really frustrating for him. He’s looking for advice from other Best T in the City listeners.
“I have been married for a year. I knew the first year would always be challenging but what I have experienced has put me off married life.
“My wife has seemingly lost interest in having sex. I understand that the past year has been stressful as we are busy building our house and she also started a new job. She just seems uninterested in sleeping
with me.“She is always complaining about everything, and this has frustrated me. Before marriage, things were good. We were together for 3 years before I sent my uncles. I was looking so forward to being married, but this past year has been a nightmare.
“I have been doing my best not to step out of my marriage but it’s getting more and more difficult. My older brother says I should be patient, but I am frustrated. I have lost interest. I knew things wouldn’t be easy but not like this. Where is the girl I was in a relationship with for 3 years?
“I always hear people say you should always be boyfriend and girlfriend even after marriage but not for us, we are strangers in marriage. Do people change after marriage? And what happens if you don’t like who they’ve become?”
