Katlego Sekhu

A concerned mother reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose to share her concerns about her 28-year-old son introducing a series of girlfriends to the family and frequently having different women visiting their home.
While her husband believes it’s time for their son to move out, the mother is hesitant to let go. She is seeking advice on how to navigate this situation.
“My son is 28 and has introduced us to three girls in the past two years. Besides the introduction to these girls, we also see different women leaving our yard from time to time as my son lives in the back room.
“My husband, my son’s stepdad, said it was time for my son to leave the nest. He has a good job that pays well, and it is time for me to let him go. Yes, the constant movement of different women in our yard doesn’t sit well with me either. My son has wanted to move out for years, but I have always said no. He is my only child and I had him when I was 16. I am not yet ready to let him go.
“While I hear where my husband is coming from, I feel it’s better when he still lives at home because I can still see him and be sure that he is fine. He has struggled with his mental health in the past and this makes me anxious whenever I think of him being all by himself.
“I know my husband loves my son and they have a good relationship, but I don’t agree with him about my boy going to live alone. He says he needs his independence, but I am afraid. Is it time to cut the umbilical cord? Mommies with one child, how have you navigated life as an empty nester?”



