Katlego Sekhu
A frustrated listener has reached out to The Best T in the City to share that he and his girlfriend had a huge fight, and she packed her bags and left.
He eventually swallowed his pride and asked her to come back so that they could mend their relationship. All this time, he was under the impression that she was at her parents’ house, however, she had been living with her ex.
His girlfriend insists that nothing happened between her and her ex. The listener, on the other hand, is having a tough time accepting this. He wants to find out from fellow listeners if there are any blind spots he could be overlooking.
“Me and my girlfriend have been living together for two years. We fought
a few months ago, and she decided to pack her things and go. I tried talking her out of it, but things were just heated, and she would not comply.“She said she was going home, and for a good two weeks, we didn’t talk at all. I eventually swallowed my pride and contacted her. I asked her to come back so we could work through things. A few days later, she came back. We did talk and mend things, but a few weeks later, I found out that when she left, she didn’t go home; instead, she went to her ex’s place.
“This crushed me. I asked her why she went there and she said she was going home and was not going to help as they hate that she lives with me.
she has so many friends who live alone.“She says nothing happened between her and her ex and that she reached out to him, and he agreed to help. I am finding it hard to move past this. I understand she didn’t want to go home but wanted to call her ex. I just don’t think I can trust her again, and I am thinking of calling it quits before it gets toxic. Am I being irrational? What could be my blind spot
Anonymous
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