Zuko Komisa

“Uncle T, my husband, has been spoiling me for the past couple of months. He does things for me, mostly when I ask him to, but he has also been doing them without me asking. I didn’t think much of it, but it all started to make sense last week. I saw a receipt in his car, and it was for a wig and shoes he got me, but he made two purchases of each. I confronted him, and he admitted that he was having an affair, and whatever the girlfriend asked from him, he also got for me.
I felt so dumb because this meant he wasn’t buying me these things because he wanted to spoil me; he did it to ease his conscience. I am so angry at him because I felt special and loved what he picked for me, but the thought of these things chosen by his side chick makes me sick. She must be having a good laugh seeing me in these items.
I have given him an ultimatum: dump her or lose everything. As we speak, I am consulting a lawyer to draft an agreement that he must sign to this effect. He is still apologizing, and I can see he is sincere, but to stop this nonsense from happening again, I think he needs to know that he is risking my heart and everything. Is this excessive, or should his apology be enough? What could be my Blindspot? – Anonymous”
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