By Katlego Sekhu
We all love to kiss and make up after a fight but we hardly talk about if it really works.
Have you paid close attention to how you feel after a fight? Does your affection toward them die down or do you love them even more?
Fighting with your partner usually brings out a side of them that you don’t like to see.
The Best T in the City with Tbose asks: “What did you realise after fighting with your partner? Did it bring you together or drive you further apart?”
A listener believes that fights are a result of unaddressed issues.
“When a couple fights, which is different from a disagreement, I believe it is a result of unaddressed situations in the past. As we put it earlier – sweeping things under the carpet, is why there are so many breakups and divorces.
“I believe people can kiss and make up, though it’s not fast but a process, and for it to happen it needs honesty from both parties.”
Another listener shares that accepting one another’s differences has helped them immensely.
“I and my partner have never had a fight where it ended in tears and simply because we have learned to accommodate each other’s personalities. For instance, my partner is very calm and when he is angry he wants to address something right there and there.
“When I’m angry I just want to cool down before I address something. We have learned to accommodate each other in that way.”
Here’s what people are saying on social media.
#FightingYourLover https://t.co/o0BE1UhSVJ
— T. (@tboseZA) October 11, 2022
My take Morena @tboseZA is that every argument, intense ones, weaken relationships in the long run. It chips away at it, so the spark is temporary for the sake of make up sex. Especially if no one would see the other point of view #FightingYourLover
— Rasebolelo (@rasebolelo) October 11, 2022
Sometimes it gives me a different perspective about them, more like ” I know what I’m dealing with ” typa perspective.#FightingYourLover pic.twitter.com/Oz4AjIe9Tt
— Motho wa Modimo (@MModimo) October 11, 2022
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