Katlego Sekhu

Black Coffee recently joined My Top 10 at 10 with Tbose for an exclusive interview, the first since his life-altering accident in January.
Speaking about his failed marriage to his ex-wife, Enhle Mbali, Black Coffee said he believes one of the reasons for his marriage failure was that he fashioned the marriage according to his own idea of marriage.
“I modeled marriage in my own way because of my upbringing, my parents failing in marriage, and me not being raised by both of them. I created my own world where I’m like, When I get a chance to do this thing, I’m going to do it this way. So much so that you want to lead in everything. So much that you forget that there is someone next to you. Every time I’d make a move that I thought was good for us and it wasn’t received like that, a part of me was dying.”
The Grammy-award-winning DJ noted that it’s only in retrospect that he realised his blind spots.
“There are so many of those things that hit me later. Not me saying I want to try marriage again, but just to say: I could have approached things differently. It is so easy to blame your ex, but if you are going to sit down and be honest with yourself, you are going to find a lot of loopholes in things you have already done.”



