Katlego Sekhu

Anonymous is considering proposing to her boyfriend after a year of dating. She believes he is her soulmate and wants to spend many more days with him. However, her friends disagree with her idea, insisting that it is the man’s responsibility to propose. Seeking advice from fellow listeners of Best T in the City, she wants to know if her plan is a sensible one.
“After a year of being with my boyfriend, I’m thinking of proposing to him on Christmas, which is also his birthday. We are planning on going away, and it will just be the two of us. It may sound crazy to a lot of people, but I believe that this man is my soul mate, and I would love to spend a lot of days with him.
“My best friend says what I’m doing is wrong, as it is the man’s role to propose. But why should I wait? Times have changed, and I understand that there is ilobolo, but we will deal with that at a later stage. I love this guy, and I am certain that we were meant to be together. I know he shares the same sentiments, as he’s previously expressed his desire to marry me. Why should I wait for him to go down on one knee when I can also do that? Am I crazy here?”
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