Katlego Sekhu

A listener recently shared with The Best T in the City that he had to take a pay cut last year, which has put a strain on his relationship with his wife. Despite his financial challenges, she continues to be financially inconsiderate. On top of that, she has stopped being intimate with him and doesn’t seem to care about their marriage. He’s now considering getting a divorce and wants to know if there are any blind spots he might be missing before making a decision.
“I had to take a pay cut at work last year. This has put much financial strain on my marriage. What hurts is that my wife just doesn’t seem to care.
“Her lifestyle has not changed. Instead of trying to fill the gaps, she shops and goes out, and then tells me that I should get a side hustle and take control rather than complain.
“She has even stopped being intimate with me. This hurts, and her family seems to be supportive of her attitude. I know marriage comes with trials, but this has made me see another side to my wife.
“We don’t have kids, and we have a prenup. So, we can break up, and everyone can go their way. I feel I should just leave and rather go start afresh alone. I have fallen out of love with her, and I don’t see how we can bounce back from this. Or is this my bruised ego talking?”
Anonymous
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