Having sex on your first date isn’t the most traditional thing to do, if you’re both ready and enthusiastic, it may be the ideal way to end a memorable evening.
Everyone has an opinion on how a first date should end. Is this still a norm to date first before you share a bed? Isn’t this old and worn out? Men now find that women are eager to take advantage of accessible sex, whereas they believe they should first wine and dine.
The Best T in the City Tbose Mokwele asked Kaya 959 listeners this WeTnesday if going from a date to the bedroom is still considered taboo. According to the callers, men are a little slower and prefer to wine and dine when they want to go straight to sexual delights.
I got down on the first night and years later we are still here.
For me it really matters not what comes first as long as I am comfortable with the decision and sure am not gonna be all regretful after. Let’s go! #SexFirstDateLater pic.twitter.com/pyXexXZibU
— Kedumetse Makape (@amogee) June 23, 2021
— Tshedi _Tsotetsi (@Tshedi_Tsotetsi) June 23, 2021
Nowadays the 1st date is a #SexDate and because sibadala no one judges the other, after that encounter it will determine the “relationship” whether you keep on dating or just become friends with benefits #SexFirstDateLater
— BeInspired (@Tsigwili) June 23, 2021
Sex after first date or not you still gona sex. We live on very borrowed time , why waste it . Sex isn’t gona keep a man if he wants to be kept he will . Hauweng banna 🙌🏾🤪 #SexFirstDateLater
— Ramokadi (@Mzansibabe) June 23, 2021
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[3 TSpoons] On Why #SexFirstDateLater
🥄 The Stigma Around First-Date Sex Is Outdated
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— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) June 23, 2021