By Katlego Sekhu
At the beginning of October, Miss South Africa 2018 Tamaryn Green had her Umabo ceremony in KZN.
Many wondered what the celebration entailed as she had two wedding celebrations prior.
Because Tamaryn and her husband Ze come from different cultures, they decided to embrace all traditions and rituals required by both cultures to be married.
In western culture, there is usually an engagement, followed by a bachelorette or bachelors party, then finally the white wedding.
“A traditional Zulu wedding is quite different, but also has distinctive stages.”
Tamaryn explains that a proposal had to happen followed by lobola negotiations.
“This is followed by an Umembeso where the groom’s representatives come in numbers and gifts are given to the bride’s family & the bride herself.
“The groom’s family is welcomed to the bride’s home. In this case Paarl. This event announces publicly that the groom & the bride are no longer on the market for anyone.”
The wedding date is then set and the white & traditional wedding takes place over one weekend.
Some couples separate the white wedding & the traditional wedding by weeks, months, or even years.
“The white wedding took place in April where Ze & I were officially married in Stellenbosch but the traditional wedding still had to take place and was set for October in Durban, midlands.”
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