Katlego Sekhu
South African media personality Mihlali Ndamase has penned an open letter in response to the allegations levelled against her by her ex. She read out the letter on her YouTube channel.
Mihlali explained that she opted for an open letter as she struggles to articulate herself.
In a statement last week, Leeroy Sidambe claimed that Mihlali had attempted to stab her, among other allegations.
“It was with great vulnerability that I admit I was involved in a toxic relationship. It started verbally and emotionally, and the matter quickly escalated to it being physically harmful. I take responsibility for my involvement in the toxic dynamic.
“One can only keep quiet for so long after tolerating gaslighting and aggression. Emotional abuse, manipulation and obsessive behaviour and controlling tactics employed by an individual.”
“Tactics used to distort my perception of love which led me down a path of pain and torment. The scars of this experience run deep and the trauma continues to echo in my personal life and in my business.”
Mihlali explained that such cases can be complex and escalate gradually over time, and are difficult for some to understand. Especially if they have no personal experience. However, that does not discredit or invalidate my story as I have lived it.
“It is imperative for us to educate ourselves on the nature of abuse, gender-based violence and the devastating impact it has in families, individuals and communities.
“Despite the darkness that has clouded my past, I am filled with hope and determination to embark on a journey of healing,” said Mihlali.
Moreover, the 28-year-old said that she is committed to seeking the support and resources necessary to get the help she needs to reclaim her sense of dignity and self-worth.
“Through my healing journey, I hope to inspire others to speak out and seek help and break free from any toxic environment, as nobody deserves it.”
