Katlego Sekhu
Kgolo “Da Guru” Mthembu, businessman and husband of reality television star Annie Mthembu, recently sat down with Mo and Phindi to candidly discuss his healing journey and the personal challenges he has faced.
Da Guru revealed that he reached a point where he was no longer taking accountability for his life or business.
“I was drinking two bottles of wine every day for two years. I wasn’t big on substances. I was big on alcohol. I overdid it, and I made lots of mistakes,” he admitted.
The former nightclub owner also opened up about the current state of his relationship, revealing that things are not in a good place.
“There is no way you can be someone’s role model, lover, or hero and one day become an animal. You can’t give someone love if you don’t love yourself,” he said.
“You also need to have patience with the people you’ve let down. They don’t have to forgive you right away. Expecting them to do so is unfair.”
Da Guru also addressed his decision not to return to The Real Housewives of Durban.
I realised that we expose ourselves too much out there and give people too much power in our relationship.
Last year, I made the decision not to showcase my relationship in public. The only thing I can spread now is the testimony of God in my life.
“I can’t blame the show, but what I can do now is make a decision on what I choose to share with the public,” he said in part.
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