When it comes to sex, many people have their own wishes and preferences of what they want in the bedroom however they never ask for these things.
For example,some men want women to be dominant in the bedroom, they want to be spooned, and they want women to talk dirty.
On the other hand, some women want men to be more verbal, they want role play and a variety of kinky positions. The reality is everything is awkward when you haven’t done it before.
Don’t expect things to go exactly as planned and be prepared for some improvisation. If you haven’t practiced voicing sexual desires, you won’t be great at it right away.
Here are the 3TSpoons on How To Ask For What You Want In Bed:
Know When to Ask:
Bringing up sex is never an easy thing, but it’s even worse when it’s about what you want because we never want to hurt our partner’s feelings. So, a huge part of how your partner is going to respond comes down to how you talk to them about it.
Show Them What You Want:
If there’s a very specific way you’d like your partner to switch up their style during sex, and the words to describe it are failing you, try a nonverbal approach. Your partner is almost 100% guaranteed to love this, so there’s no reason to be shy.
Ask Them What They Need:
Another good route is to ask about what your partner might want or need in bed that they’re not already getting. By making suggestions and asking questions, it becomes an easy conversation and if your partner can bring up what they’d like to try, your suggestions will feel less like a lack of satisfaction and more like a mutual appetite for exploration.
— Nthato Cibi (@nthato_cibi1) March 24, 2021
Sometimes partner don’t do certain things cos the other isn’t also willing to give.. it’s a give take situation.. some days just randomly offer and see what happens ?#WhatIWantDuringSexButAfraidToAsk
— Ramokadi (@Mzansibabe) March 24, 2021
— K5 Boy?? (@OagengP) March 24, 2021