Katlego Sekhu

A listener shares that her work husband recently bought her an expensive handbag for her birthday. However, he advised her not to mention the gift to her actual husband, as it might bruise his ego.
Her husband hasn’t been doing well financially, and she’s concerned that keeping the bag could potentially cause issues in her marriage.
Reaching out to The Best T in the City, she seeks advice on whether there are any blind spots she might be overlooking in this situation.
“My work-husband bought me a luxury handbag but asked me not to tell my husband. We have a completely innocent relationship, and even in the office, we’re known as ‘work husband and wife.’ We share a department and occasionally have lunch together—but nothing more.
“My husband knows about him, has met him, and they even sit together at work events. I think the birthday gift (the bag) came about because, a few months before my birthday, I casually mentioned to my work-husband that I probably wouldn’t be getting any birthday spoils this year due to financial struggles.
“He believes telling my husband about the bag—especially since it was bought by a male colleague—will bruise his ego and create tension at home. I’d like to keep it because I know it’s an innocent gift, and honestly, it’s something I’ve been wanting for a while. Can I keep the bag without affecting my relationship?”
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