Katlego Sekhu

One of our listeners recently shared that she has been in a relationship with her partner for five years, and he is planning to pay lobola in December.
However, during a wild night out with friends, she ended up hooking up with another woman. To her surprise, she enjoyed the experience, but now she is worried about the consequences of not being honest with her husband.
She is reaching out to our fellow Best T in the City listeners for advice. She wants to know if there are any blind spots she might be overlooking in this situation.
“I have been with the father of my child for five years. He is set to pay Lobola in December. Last month, I went out with friends, and I hooked up with a girl. This is something I have always wanted to experience, and it was better than what I expected. This has left me so conflicted.
“I didn’t tell my partner as I practically cheated on him. I want to do it again; everything was perfect, and I just can’t stop thinking about it.
“Should I just come clean with my partner, because should I continue
exploring, we may eventually get caught and that will be too late? I love my boyfriend, but I think I might be bisexual. What could be my blind spot?”
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