Zuko Komisa

Having a perfect relationship with your in-laws is sometimes a very big challenge, especially if you enter marriage having your children.
Anonymous reached out to the Best T In the City to share her dilemma, explaining that she has been struggling with how her mother-in-law treats her first child from her previous relationship different from the other kids she has with her husband.
“Uncle T, when hubby and I met I already had a child. He didn’t have a problem and has always been good to my son. We got married after 2 years and a year later we had our first child and had our other child last year. Now, over the years I could see that my mother-in-law didn’t quite like my firstborn child, but hubby always brushed it aside.”
“Last week, my sister-in-law had a small gathering at her house and my mother-in-law was embracing all her grandkids but didn’t seem to care much about my firstborn. I even heard her say she only has 6 grandkids this other one has their own grandmother somewhere out there. This hurt me and when we got home, I told hubby and while he was not happy as well, he said I must just ignore his mom as she’s old-school. He says what matters is that he loves my son and takes him as his own. I hear him but I also feel like he needs to call her to order.”
“I mean what happens if we have to drop off our kids with her? Will I have to take my child to my mom while his siblings are elsewhere? I am at a point where i will not take any of my kids over to her. Am I wrong for wanting her to love my child as much as she loves all her other grandkids?
-Anonymous
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