Katlego Sekhu

A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose, seeking advice on a delicate situation. This individual, who tragically lost his wife two years ago, has found love again and is genuinely happy. However, his children are not on board with his new love interest, going so far as to give her side-eye and refusing to speak to her. The listener, who wishes to remain anonymous, is desperate to find a way to keep both his girlfriend and his kids happy.
“Bra T, I have been having an on-and-off relationship with my girlfriend, for a couple of years now. My kids don’t like her, and this has really caused problems for us. My wife passed away, and two years later, I met my girlfriend. At first, my kids were okay with her, but I think my wife’s family has been feeding them the wrong things. It started off with them always being in their rooms when my girlfriend is around, not greeting her and giving
her looks.“My girlfriend has since told me that as long as my kids don’t like her and treat her badly, then she doesn’t think our relationship will work. I love this woman; she brings so much stability to my life, but I also love my kids, and I don’t want to badmouth my in-laws to them.
“Should I just stop shielding my in-laws and explain to the kids that my girlfriend was not in the picture when their mother passed? Or am I blinded by love?”
Anonymous
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