Katlego Sekhu

After months of dating, a listener is growing concerned about her talking stage’s reluctance to define their relationship. Adding to her unease, he continues to go on dates with other women. While she loves him, she questions whether investing time and effort into the relationship is worthwhile.
“We’ve been on a talking stage since October, but we haven’t officially labeled our relationship. He still goes on dates, and when I express my discomfort, he claims he’s still exploring, reassuring me that I’m his top priority.
“He communicates with me daily, remains consistent, and I genuinely like him. Could it be that he fears commitment, or perhaps he doesn’t see me as ‘the one’? After three months, shouldn’t we be at a point to call each other boyfriend and girlfriend?
“Maybe I’m too old-fashioned. I believe a man should clearly state his intentions so I know where I stand. At the same time, I don’t want to appear desperate for a relationship.”
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