Katlego Sekhu

A listener who recently went through divorce quarrels with her ex-husband. She reveals that he instructed their children to start calling his new girlfriend “mom,” and this has bothered her. Seeking advice from The Best T in the City, this listener wonders if she is overreacting.
“My divorce was finalised last year, and my ex and I have been co-parenting very well. However, in December, my ex introduced our kids to his new partner. It didn’t sit well with me. Our kids told me that their dad asked them to call his new partner, uMama.
“I wasn’t okay, and I cried myself to sleep that night. Why must she be called uMama? Why not Aunty or anything else? I am upset about this whole thing, and I want to tell my ex that this is unacceptable. Would this make me a bitter ex? To be honest, I am still mourning the end of my marriage. This whole situation has made it worse. I don’t want to lie. What could be my blind spot?”
Anonymous
One listener believes that Anonymous is acting like a bitter ex and should allow the kids to refer to this woman however they feel comfortable. According to the listener, since she is their dad’s partner, she is also their mom.
Another listener emphasizes Anonymous. “Your ex cannot take the kids and make them call his girlfriend “mom.” Even if you marry her, she can never truly become their mom. Children have a biological mother, and they can call the girlfriend “Aunty” or something similar.”
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