Katlego Sekhu

A troubled listener recently reached out to the Best T in the City, seeking advice after experiencing a fallout with his current partner over his support for his ex’s child. He believes there is nothing wrong with this, as he practically raised the child and couldn’t abandon her just because he and his ex broke up. He also mentioned that his ex doesn’t work.
“Last year, I started dating this woman, and things have been going well. However, in December, things took a bit of a turn. I have a five-year-old boy with my ex, and when we met, she had a two-year-old daughter. I used to help my ex financially, even after we had a son.
“We unfortunately broke up, but I continued providing for both kids. During the holiday season, I went shopping for both kids with my current girlfriend, and she was angry that I was buying for a daughter who is not biologically mine. I explained that I pretty much raised my ex’s daughter and always provided for her, especially because my ex doesn’t work.
“My girlfriend didn’t talk to me for most of the holiday season because she felt that I spent too much. I honestly can’t bring myself to just provide for my son and not his sister, with whom I also have a good relationship. Am I wrong for wanting to step up? Is my girlfriend justified in how she feels?”
Anonymous
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