Katlego Sekhu

A frustrated listener has turned to fellow Best T listeners for advice as he faces a dilemma: his wife is refusing to take his last name. According to Anonymous, before their wedding, she had assured him that she would adopt his last name. However, now that her career is thriving, she has decided to retain her own surname.
Anonymous is questioning whether his desire for his wife to take his last name is unrealistic.
“I married the girl of my dreams last year. Things have been going well; however, my wife doesn’t want to change her last name to mine. Before we got married, she could not stop talking about how she couldn’t wait to share the same last name as me. But here we are. When I raised this with her, she said that her career is finally kicking off, and because she comes from a prominent family, keeping her last name works to her advantage.
“I honestly don’t feel as if this is a good enough reason. Had I known, I would not have married her because her taking my last name is very important to me. I even suggested a double barrel, but she is not having it. I’m upset with this whole situation. It is making me feel like my surname is not good enough. Am I really being unreasonable by demanding that she take my name? Or am I focusing on something so small and losing sight of the bigger picture?”
Anonymous
Listen to the full discussion on The Best T in the City podcast.
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